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    October 31

    Our Vows

     

     

     

     

    "I love you and I promise to always be there for you.

    I respect your independence and I encourage your growth.

    I promise to receive your love with love

    and to work hard

    at keeping our marriage true and everlasting."

    Marianne's Dance with her Dads'

    MY GIRL (Temptations)

    I've got sunshine on a cloudy day.
    When it's cold outside I've got the month of May.
    I guess you'd say
    What can make me feel this way?
    My girl (my girl, my girl)
    Talkin' 'bout my girl (my girl).

    I've got so much honey the bees envy me.
    I've got a sweeter song than the birds in the trees.
    I guess you'd say
    What can make me feel this way?
    My girl (my girl, my girl)
    Talkin' 'bout my girl (my girl).

    Hey hey hey
    Hey hey hey
    Ooooh.

    I don't need no money, fortune, or fame.
    I've got all the riches baby one man can claim.
    I guess you'd say
    What can make me feel this way?
    My girl (my girl, my girl)
    Talkin' 'bout my girl (my girl).

    I've got sunshine on a cloudy day
    with my girl.
    I've even got the month of May
    with my girl (fade)

    Our Wedding song, and my favorite moment!

    At Last

    by Etta James

    album: Her Best (1997)

    Artist : Etta James 
    Song : At Last (1961)
    Album : Her Best 
    
    At last 
    My love has come along
    My lonely days are over
    And life is like a song
    
    Ohh yeah yeah
    At last
    
    The skies above are blue
    My heart was wrapped up in clover
    The night I looked at you
    
    I found a dream, that I could speak to
    A dream that I can call my own
    I found a thrill to press my cheek to
    A thrill that I have never known
    
    Ohh  yeah yeah?
    You smiled, you smiled
    
    Oh and then the spell was cast
    And here we are in heaven
    for you are mine....
    
    At Last
    October 30

    Our Wedding Plans

    Getting Married
    Getting Married magnify
    Gettin' Married!
     
    Marianne and Jill met Spring of 2003 but didn't begin dating til' a questionable date in the fall somewhere between mid Oct (as M says) and near the end of Nov (as Jill says). Even thought here might be a bit of a debate as to when.. it deffinately happened! The two hit it off and soon were zipping off to Disneyland (Jan).. and moving in together (June).. which included the blending of their families, three children, two of Jill's and one of Marianne's.  They have gone through so much in such little time!
     
    "Now that I know who I am, I have my own business, I know how to operate a drill, light a BBQ and I'm learning to drive.  Coming out of the closet was such a complex, difficult step for me, as it effected so many people around me, especially my children, but so worth it. I have never been so happy and felt such an inner peace in my entire life, nothing can get me down."
     
    HOW WE MET

    Our best friend August introduced us, early spring of 2003. We were both seeing someone else at the time but there was an instant attraction.. that had to lay dormant for some time. August brought Marianne over to Jill's. With cheese cake. "I was still going through transition I didn't know where I was supposed to be. And there she was, this extremely beautiful woman who knew who she was and knew where she was going, I was very impressed. That and she pet my dog!" Marianne and Jill  began seeing each other fall of 2003!

     
    THE ENGAGEMENT

    Jill was married once before, to a man of all things so she had to get that divorce finished off before she could propose to Marianne, finally that came through July of 2005 and she set her sights on marrying M. They had been living together for a year and it was a great year. Not that they had never had a squabble.. they just figured them out decently. They took a family trip to Cranbrook, visiting some relitives of Jill's and finally had a moments peace to look at some rings. They picked a beautiful one out together and a few weeks later we set a date, Oct 28, 2006! To mark the date, Jill sent Marianne and beautiful bouquet of flowers of Red roses, & white lillies.

     
     
    "And hand in hand on the edge of the sand, They danced by the light of the moon The moon, The moon. They danced by the light of the moon. "
    The Owl and the Pussycat
     
    THE WEDDING
     
    Marianne and Jill will be married October 28 2006, 7:00 PM at St Andrew 's United Church, 1000 Huckvale Pl, we are having our reception at the Elks hall.  Both places are conviently located in town.  We will have our friends and families with us and will throw a huge masquerade ball following the evening cerimony.
     
    "I just feel like I'm setting everything that was so wrong, right.  Making this profound commitment to Marianne is a big part of that."